“Cracking the code of a girl’s heart is like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube while riding a unicycle blindfolded!” It’s true, every girl is unique, and navigating the world of their emotions can be a thrilling yet perplexing adventure! However, there are some thoughts, desires, and opinions that are common among many girls. Thousands of psychologists have observed, researched, and analyzed many people to uncover these interesting points…just for you guys!
Be Funny
Many girls like boys who can make them laugh. Even if it’s a silly joke, go ahead and crack it. She’ll appreciate your effort to make her laugh even if she doesn’t laugh herself.
Make a move, don’t hesitate!
Have you ever spotted a girl in a metro, bus station, park, or tourist spot and felt attracted to her? Are you wondering if she’s looking at you too? But are you hesitating to approach her? Don’t overthink it. If a girl gives you ‘eye contact,’ don’t think twice. Go ahead and say hi, introduce yourself. She will most likely respond positively.
Be Confident
Girls may prioritize wealth, Job, Looks, and Background, but what’s most important is a guy’s confidence. Psychology suggests that girls are attracted to boys who exude self-assuredness. Are you dark or fair-skinned? Do you have a belly or not? These things don’t matter! What matters is how confident you are. Wear your confidence like a piece of jewelry, and make sure to show others that you’re not inferior to anyone. A Word of Warning: Avoid Going Overboard
Speak Up!
This is a psychological barrier. Girls tend to be more attracted to guys who initiate conversation. Don’t just try once and give up, buddy! You have to make an effort every time, to come up with a new angle to start a conversation. Consistency is key, my friend.
Remember… Act, don’t just say.
People are more impressed by doers than talkers. That means, don’t just boast about what you can do, show them! Even the girl who never gave you a second thought will eventually notice you.
Finally, a word of advice – this isn’t just for girls, but for everyone. “We regret more for the things we didn’t do than the things we did.” If you’ve made a mistake, there’s always a chance to set it right. Once you do, the regret will fade. But if you always wanted to do something but never did, no amount of regret will bring back that opportunity. So, whether it’s about a girl or life in general, if something piques your interest, go ahead and take a step. It’s better to try and see what happens than to regret not taking a chance at all!
